When I was ironing and listening to the onelegacy radio, I heard a very interesting topic given by sister Munira and other sister (I forgot the name).
It was about Goal for 2010 as parents. She shared some interesting goal in this 2010.
Here are some of the point :
1. Being more present for our kids.
Not only for younger kids, but also for our teenager. We create a sort of security feeling to
them.
2. Limiting amount of TV and Games and letting kids to play outside accompanied by
mommy (or dad).
3. Stop and look the eye of our kids. When speaking with them, look on their eye and leave
what we do.
4. It's OK to make mistakes.
Mommy is not perfect, so it's OK for kids to make mistakes too.
5. Consistent with family meeting -> Share whatever we did through the
time(Day/week/month).
Sit down as a family and have everybody to talk without being interrupted.
6. I will tell children that I love the kids and why I love them. And give them the hugs.
No matter our kids are (how bad he is, how much mistakes they did, etc), we love them
unconditionally.
7. Instead of teaching Islam to the kids too much, It's better to give them example of Islam in
our daily life ( action of Islam). Living Islamic.
8. Take care of myself, so I can make a better relationship in my marriage and raising children.
9. Stop nagging our kids. Accept their feeling and don't preach them too much.
Subhanallah this information is really really worth to me. Hope that I can practice them.
Have a happy parenting!!
Let's do an active parenting
Picture taken from : www.islamicparenting.org
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